Yesterday I was giving a satsang about how we have got used to someone berating us or beating us that we have become glutton for punishment. Just as the one who takes the insulin shots daily has got so much used to injecting that they have stopped feeling pain anymore.
Why does someone love to get beaten so often in marriage or in life?
Is it that they have stopped caring for their own selves or do they have low self esteem?
There is absolutely no need for you to feel so low about your own self.
God has given you two hands, two legs, a beautiful body and overall a great mind so what is it that is stopping you from getting what you want in life?
Is it fear of failure or falling down that makes you not do anything at all?
Or is it just plain lethargy, laziness, inertia or stupor that does not allow you to lift your ass?
I have seen people make a priority list and write therein what they think they should do first and then what happens? They relegate the item number one to the last number. They will do every other thing except that which is the most important in the world.
Now decide what is your primary aim in life and go after it with vengeance.
Remember you are unique in this world and there is no one else who can replace you so what makes you think that you are no good?
God made you in His own image they say but when you talk about failures, does it look like there is God in you? You cut a sorry figure when you demean yourself.
Stop feeling sorry and be good to yourself.
Plan your life to success and get to it with vigor and zest.
Write down what is it that you should be doing first and foremost and then go about executing it.
Review the plan continuously and update yourself towards your surroundings.
If it is technology up gradation then do that.
If it is about wearing the right set of garments then do that.
If you have to get consul then get that.
Get motivated and forge ahead in life.
Stop getting beaten up and mauled. Take firm steps towards success.
Stop lying to yourself that all is well, all is well when you know that it is not well.
Start making those changes every moment.
There is no time to loose.
And above all stop being a martyr! Stop crying now! Go win!